I am a captivating paradox of originality, intelligence, and resilience. I am seeking a generous suitor who can appreciate and embrace my unique qualities.

In addition to my fervent sexual drive, I have a deep thirst for knowledge. I am constantly seeking to expand my horizons and engage in stimulating conversations. I am looking for a suitor who can match my intellectual curiosity and engage in meaningful discussions with me.

Physical intimacy is important to me, but it is not the sole focus of my desires. I am looking for someone who can provide both authentic and intellectual connection, someone who can support and challenge me in equal measure.

I am methodically loyal. From a young age, I’ve always had a hard time understanding when someone doesn’t really mean what they say. As an adult, this translates to me being wary of people who don’t keep their word or follow through on plans.

Values I Hold

To me, honesty isn’t just ethical, but practical. Any dishonesty in a system means results cannot be predicted or trusted. Any relationship is a system, and I need to be able to project a strong chance of long-term happiness. I let very few people into my “inner circle,” and when I do, I have high expectations. A single let-down can leave scars.

I have a sense of personal dedication to my close friends, and I expect to receive that in return. I believe competence and loyalty go hand in hand; I do not trust a suitor who simply cheers for me if I cannot also count on their counsel and good judgment.

When I feel this is provided, there’ll be no question of my loyalty in return. I am the type of person who’ll drop everything and come to you in your time of need (or more likely, rearrange everything so nothing gets dropped). Once you have proven to be one of my trusted few, you can count on me.

I generally show my affection by helping my inner circle reach their goals. I view all problems as inherently solvable. I may or may not value the same outcomes as you, but if I know exactly what your goals are, I’ll become your COO.

Important Needs

Reciprocation is appreciated. All I really ask is that you understand how much my personal goals mean to me and that you show your support. For bonus points, brag about me. As a sometimes-introvert, I am bad at bragging about myself.

About being a some-times introvert, I do require a ridiculous amount of alone time. And alone time for me means time with no distractions. This is how I create my vast plans and do my best work to conquer my goals. Without it, I can’t accomplish things.

I know this can be off-putting. There’s no way to change this about me, but I’ll make time for you if you ask. After all, I do also require and truly value close relationships, too. The secret is to make a plan in advance. I want to spend time with you, I just need to know when so I can plan accordingly.

Ideal Connection

In my current stage of career advancement, time has become a precious commodity. As a result, I am becoming more selective in choosing who I spend it with. I seek suitors who are interested in establishing a strong physical and emotional connection, rather than engaging in one-time encounters. My energy is better spent on building something meaningful or not bothering at all. If you are seeking a one-time experience, I encourage you to explore other options.

The philosophy of connection I desire can be summarized as valuing the importance of slowing down. It is crucial to truly understand what motivates and drives each other towards our goals and passions. Once an authentic connection is established, it becomes the foundation for a deeper understanding of how to care for and fulfill each other’s needs.

If you feel your needs align, please don’t hesitate to get in touch so we can get acquainted.

Social Introduction First

My time has become increasingly limited so for the foreseeable future, anyone who would like to meet me that hasn’t already will be required to schedule a social introduction to ensure our compatibility together. This can take place in public or private, but it’s only a social introduction. I’m happy to schedule a non-video phone call in lieu of meeting in person.

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If you’ve already met me and would like the password to unlock the rest of my site, please email and I’ll send it to you.